Americans
are good people. America is a good
country. Please stop poking and prodding
to try to continually find something wrong.
Case in
point: The people of Texas dealing with
Harvey. These people, many of whom are
the “deplorables” and the conservatives who are accused of being bigots,
racists, and worse, are out helping their neighbors. Whites (those called racists) are carrying Blacks
on their backs and in their boats. Conservatives
and liberals are stepping forward to help one another without inquiring into
race or creed or culture or other politically correct determinations. Police officers are helping people not
shooting them. People of all faiths are
helping people of other or no faith. The
victims of the hurricane are for the most part being kind, civil, and
orderly. The President is standing
behind these victims – all of them – with his verbal support as well as that of
the federal government.
This is
America – a country of good people all pulling together to help those faced
with a tragedy. And yet, there are those
who must find something to complain about, so, what do I read but that Mrs.
Trump wore high heels to board the plane to Texas followed by all sorts of
name-calling about her and then attaching that to her husband. These folks did not even wait to see that Mrs.
Trump indeed changed into flat shoes by the time she deplaned in Texas (so,
apparently, she is not an idiot after all).
I once had a
friend who seemed to never be angry (this was a black man in Detroit in the
late 60s and early 70s, so he had much he could have chosen to be angry
about). This man did not give in, and
was not shy about standing up for his and others’ rights, but he was not
angry. He said being angry wasted too
much time and energy. Instead, he used
that time and energy to see the good in all mankind and work with others to
make our world a better place.
There are
many today who could take a lesson from that friend. Instead of fomenting anger – their own and
that of others – why not see the good in those with whom they disagree and try
working with those others to make this world a better place. Rather than spend their time looking for
things wrong with America and with opposing views and those who hold them, why
not look for all the good in all the people around us in this country? Why, I wonder, is that so hard?
America is a
good country with a long history. Like
all history, some of that is good, some not.
But it is the history of a country that respects humankind and encourages
the individual to be all that he or she can be. Please stop poking that history apart to find
only what can be complained about.
Second case
in point: In 1892 Italian immigrants pulled
together to fund the statue of Columbus that stands in Columbus circle, but is
now under threat of removal. The history
of the statue reveals the strength of the Italian-American community, a group
that still honors Columbus despite his imperfections. And, isn’t that the key to understanding this
country: It is not a perfect place
filled with perfect people, but it is a place that honors all those people with
all their imperfections.
Yes, Columbus,
in addition to awakening Europe to this new world, brought with him much
sickness and death. We can all wish
that had not happened and hate that it did; we can blame Columbus for his
actions and then for those of many others.
But, if we look fully, we can also see in Columbus an example of someone
with a new idea who did not give up in his hope for exploration. It took him years to convince someone to fund
his voyages, and those voyages were not easy.
Here is an example of a relentless human spirit that will not give
up. So, we can simply hate him for the
hurt he brought to this land and its native peoples and tear down his statue,
or, we can look not with hate but with an open mind and consider his example as
one that shows us what the human spirit can do (for if we tear down every
dreamer that was in any way imperfect, then we will have no examples of
dreamers to show our children what the human spirt can do). And, should someone dream and succeed in
setting off in new explorations, we can look to Columbus’s imperfections to
teach how not to behave (for without that example as well, we are likely doomed
to repeat the errors).
Our history
is not perfect, but it is our history, and even the darker moments have lessons
to teach us. So, let me suggest that
instead of seeking always to find fault and as a result seeing only the bad,
that those inclined to do so take a moment to see the full and total picture of
America and its people and to view that picture with an open mind of hope, not
hate.
America is a
good country. Our history – our full
history, not one that is cleansed or one that is shaded only with our mistakes
and imperfections – teaches us that; it
should not take a disaster to remind us that America is filled with good people
and that there is more to do with our energy and our time than to spend it on
hate and anger.