I didn’t
realize it at the time, but growing up I was exposed to all sorts of
diversity. The fact that I didn’t
realize it is a plus, not a minus. That
is, I interacted with people of different colors, cultures, backgrounds, and
beliefs. I came to know them as friends,
or as someone I didn’t particularly like, or as someone with whom I enjoyed a particular
activity, or just as an acquaintance or someone with whom I interacted merely because we ended up in the same locale or venue on some sort of regular
basis. That is, each was simply a
person with whom I related in one way or another, not because of their color or
culture or beliefs, but because of their particular qualities as an individual.
At the same
time, I was less aware of the details of their racial or cultural
backgrounds. If they had particular cultural
or religious celebrations, even if I was invited to participate, I didn’t (and
still don’t) pretend to understand the details, meanings, depth or significance
of the celebrations or traditions. I
sometimes found their traditional food unusual and either distasteful or strangely to my
liking. I simply respected these different
traditions and celebrations, enjoyed them, perhaps felt a bit uncomfortable or
found them odd, but accepted that these were a part of that individual’s life
that made that person whom she or he was.
I and many
other diverse people simply interacted with one another as human beings. To this day I cannot tell you the details of
some of those people’s cultural heritage or their religious or political
beliefs. The focus was not on the things
that made us different, but simply on the many things we shared that gave us a
community. We did not share everything;
our cultures, traditions, and backgrounds were different; and, sometimes. we chose to share those traditions only with others of the same background. We did not have the need to all be the
same; what we did have was simply a need and a desire to be a community in
which we respected one another as individuals and all supported the particular community
(and country) in which we lived.
Fast forward
to the present day. Now the focus is on
the identity factors that make us different.
Are you Black, African American, White, Hispanic, Asian, Native
American, Republican, Independent, Democrat, Socialist, Christian, Buddhist,
Jew, Muslim, Atheist, Straight, Gay, Male, Female, Transgender? These and similar identity factors have
become the definition of whom one is. A
Black man is expected to hold certain beliefs; a White is assumed to have come
from certain privilege and thus hold certain beliefs; a woman is expected to
have an attitude that conforms to the attitude of all other women, a Jew is
expected to have political positions consistent with all other Jews, etc.,
etc. And, each group identity includes a
belief that some other group either is better off or is hostile to their
interests, requiring each group to protect itself against the others.
Now, rather
than two people meeting, developing a friendship and then learning that they
are of different cultural backgrounds or belong to different religions and
learning from one another as a result of those differences, the starting place
of any relationship is the identity factor that seems to have come to define
whom one is. Hence, where in my
childhood I happened to have two peers of a religion that differed from my own,
one of whom became a close friend and one of whom I did not particularly like,
today most people would likely begin both relationships with the preconceived
label of that religion and what all its people are allegedly like. That is, the pre-formed and labeled identity
would likely preclude the development of the true and individual relationships.
We now find “diversity”
in these group identities. Thus, various
entities insure that they have a sufficient proportion of people of color on
their staffs; schools want some certain number students from varying
identifiable groups so as to create a “diverse” atmosphere. Yet, while I now may be able to walk into a
classroom and count a certain number of black and brown and white faces and
conclude there is diversity, this is simply a diversity of a superficial
characteristic and does not ensure a diversity of individuals. This simply
suggests that if one can claim the right number of friends in varying colors or
backgrounds that they somehow are in a better place than one who can claim a
number of friendships based not on identity characteristics but on true and
deep interactions with unique individuals with unique and varying viewpoints, backgrounds,
values, and talents.
As to those
differing celebrations and traditions, they too suffer in this era of forced
diversity and identity politics. For example,
winter holiday celebrations now often include some sort of recognition of Hanukkah,
so that most non-Jews now know that Hanukkah involves some sort of candle
lighting and oil that burned for 8 days.
That’s fine, but one wonders how many think that is all they need to
know, or that by knowing this that they have a full understanding of the
significance of Hanukkah to the Jewish people and how it fits into their history
and their religious beliefs. We tend to
merge many holidays together in winter, cheapening the religious significance
of all of them. This seems to be the
result of some well-intentioned attempt to teach us respect for differing
religious beliefs. But why not simply
respect that someone of another faith has different beliefs; we do not all have
to celebrate everyone else’s traditions. (Perhaps a friendship with someone of
another faith will result in an invitation to celebrate with that individual’s
family; that - through individual friendships – seems a far better way to
experience and learn about the different culture of another).
The forced
diversity that we see today based upon group identity characteristics seems to
be just another way to avoid actually thinking.
If one accepts the label they are given and identifies with a particular
group as the definition of whom they are, then they need not worry about what
they should think because they will be told what the positions of that group
are just as they will be told which other identified groups are their friends or
their foes. Hence, they can avoid developing
friendships or even talking with individuals with diverse and unique beliefs
and positions.
Forced
diversity results in a false belief that we know and understand people and
their cultures. It is not real
diversity, but just something that seems to make people feel good. What
today’s “diversity” actually gives us is labels for people based on
identifiable characteristics, along with a definition of the supposed
characteristics and beliefs of every member of that group. What forced diversity and group identity does
is prohibit us from getting to know individuals as the complex individual that
each and every one of us is. And, it
prohibits us from having a true dialog with any of the many and diverse
individuals with whom we come in contact every day. Our communities cannot then be held together
by the common humanity that unites us, but instead become divided based on the
superficial and assumed characteristics of competing group identities.
[Addendum: an example of the danger of group identity and
its resultant lack of individual thinking can be seen in the recent experiment
in which students at George Washington University rejected the Trump tax plan
when told it was from Trump, but embraced it when told it was Bernie Sanders’ plan. When given the details of the plan and told
it was from Trump, the students called it “evil,” said it only benefited the
rich and that it is “wrong.” When given
the same details and told it was from Sanders, students said it was “amazing,” "caring," and “so compassionate.” This
seems to reveal a mindset that anything Trump is bad and anything Sanders is
good, suggesting a group identity/group think that dictates what one should
think rather than encouraging individual thought or actual dialog. This may be one small example, but sadly rather than being isolated or unique, it is an example of what occurs throughout our society on a daily basis as we give up individual thought and interaction to the dictates of a particular group.]